Sorry I misread your post as I thought I read Tim not Tom. I could have come help you with a sleepless Tom had I known you but in those days I had absolutely NO idea about babies and I was never having any anyway ! I would have been no help !
AND I put 39 instead of 49 .......... I was distracted because John was talking on the phone to his brother Walter's ex wife Kate ..... John has been trying to contact Walter (76) in England for a long time. Turns out Walter keeps losing his phones and Kate says he has been in hospital with kidney problems for a few weeks and is only now back in his flat with nurses coming in to help with his urine bag thingy !