Three Friends
General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: Linda on March 04, 2022, 06:44:55 am
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Sad stories all around :(
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Poor Chris and Laura, such a good pair and so many years of heartache, doesn't seem fair at all.
I think the girlfriend is no doubt a blessing for Grant. I'll let you know more as I hear.
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I hope Grant remains stable and if he has a good girlfriend, that will help him, I am sure.
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You do read some awful stories about family problems and family heartache so I am convinced that any or our problems ... family wise .... are not major problems. Thank the Lord.
Laura and Chris took these kids into their homes as infants in good confidence that they would grow up well and be good people :( (((((((((((((((((((((Laura and Chris)))))))))))))))))))))))))) SO sad.
I hope Grant has the help he may need in the loss of his Mum ((((((((((((((((Grant)))))))))))))))))))
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The story of Chris and Laura and the adoptions is very sad and now Chris has been battling a life threatening disease to boot.
Grant has been so much better and this has been true for several years but who knows what the tragic loss of his mother will mean for him. Connie said she is so glad he has a nice girlfriend, she thinks that will help him.
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Maddie, that's it. I knew it was close
How heart breaking to have taken two children into your home, loved and raised them, only to be slapped in the face 
I am assuming all is well with Grant these days?
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Oh WOW all I can say is that you have some errrrr odd friends and rellies Linda .. in the nicest possible way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Spencer was the boy I was thinking of and such a shame that his sister Maddie is also a worry for Chris and Laura. As for being afraid of your son....((((((((((((((Laura)))))))))))))))))) I suppose Chris is still coping with his disease ? and I think when we last mentioned this family they were also trying to get a place for Spencer. ... OR did they find one then he came back home ???????
A sad story about Marianne and her son. We should be grateful that our kids are all mentally stable..... and can function normally !!!
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Spencer's sister is Madison, they call her Maddie. Madden is Annie's son. I know, it's hard to keep them straight.

Pam was just saying yesterday that Maddie is as a constant concern. She pretty much just ignores her family, she's away at school. Pam said Chris and Laura went to visit her, a drive of more than 2 hours and she was too busy to spend time with them. I'm sure Laura has told Chris she is afraid of Spencer. I just don't know how this will all play out but I'll let you know.
Back to Marianne and her son Grant who threatened to blow up his school. Marianne and her husband did know Grant was very troubled and he'd had all kinds of counseling, medication, etc.. but still he figured out how to get those weapons under his bed. This has been a long time ago, probably 15 years so I don't remember the details.
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Her children must be devastated at her loss, it will be hard for them and her partner

I too vaguely remember you telling us about a boy you knew who had threatened to blow up his school or something. It amazes me how the parents are left in the dark and never knew their child was like that!!!!!
I really feel for Laura and I am assuming she has told Chris she is afraid of Spencer? How is his sister, Madden wasn't it?
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SPENCER.......you probably did think of it. Laura was telling Pam that she and Chris are going to counseling about Spencer. Laura wants to find a place for him to live away from them and Chris does not. Spencer does not do well with Laura, she keeps trying to "FIX" him and he can't be fixed while Chris just lets him BE. Laura told Pam she is afraid that if Chris doesn't survive this terrible disease that she would be left alone with Spencer and she is afraid of him so she wants him put somewhere. So far they can't find a place and Chris hasn't said "okay" to it anyway. It is a horrible situation for them.
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OMG Help how can anyone manage to get married and divorced so many times.. I thought it was only film stars who did this ????? Why bother in the first place anyway !
I do have a very vague memory of some young boy and weapons to blow up the school such a sad story and sad again tp lose his Mum ... did they keep in touch after the divorce ? I suppose you would not know this but how sad for Kara too
I forgot to look up my pics of our St Augustine trip ... tomorrow :)
Linda, thinking about young boys .... how is the son of ? and ? ... yes I could go back and look but but but ....... ! Your friend's ( Mary ? ) daughter's son ???? The last we heard he was sitting on his computer all day ????? Bugger I will remember his name in the middle of the night.... I KNOW I WILL because that is what I Do !!
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It was a long time ago that you were there so I'm sure you don't remember all the details but I see you do remember the alligator.
Marianne was married and they had a son Grant. You might remember me telling you about this troubled boy who threatened to blow up his school and they found weapons under the floor boards under his bed. He was put in a "facility" and was there for several years. He's been doing better and now lives on his own and has a girlfriend. After that first husband, Marianne was divorced and then married another man and they had a daughter, Kara. Kara is a month older than Emma and is in college and is perfectly normal. Marianne divorced Kara's father at some point and married another guy and they had no children. After awhile there was another divorce and now she has been living with Jim and he is the one who was with her in Florida at the time of the accident. They never married. I guess she thought she'd had enough divorces.
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I was trying to remember why our friend Larry took us ( S. Moira and I ) from Jacksonville to St Augustine .. maybe it was en-route to Disney World in Orlando and I think we went to see Ripley's Believe it or not Museum !!! But I also remember I saw my first real live Alligator there !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IN fact I think I have a photo somewhere !!!!!!!!!!!
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AH maybe it was a story about Mary's son that I can remember to do with flying. I would not mention this tragedy to Mary either :(
I cannot imagine anyone wanting to do stunt flying BUT Of course people do !!!! I would NOT allow any of my kids to do it !!!!!!!!!!!! Well I would try to stop them and I doubt I would sleep at night ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It did not says she was married or had kids... so perhaps that was also a small blessing 
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True, she was doing what she loved but what a tragic loss for so many people.
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Such a tragic accident and she certainly was admired and loved by her friends. My heart felt thoughts go out to all of you. Marianne died doing something she loved and not many people can say that

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I knew Marianne flew but nothing about what kind of flying she did. She wasn't doing stunt flying at the time of the accident but it was that kind of plane and Connie said it was a brand new plane. I'm sure I never mentioned anything here about Marianne and the flying, but I may have mentioned about my friend Mary's son who flies a small plane. I haven't told Mary about this tragic accident and I'm not sure I will. So you have been to St. Augustine and I never have.
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SO so sad and she was so young too. What an awful thing to happen. (((((((((((((Marianne)))))))))))))))) Have you mentioned Marianne and her flying before Linda ? It sounds a bit familiar and how Connie would worry about the flying antics. (((((((((((((((((((((Connie)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Sending love and prayers for all 
I have been to St Augustine too !
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I'm still just in shock over Marianne's death. Connie, Nick, her brother, Susie and I grew up together. Connie and Nick lived in a small town not too far from Oelwein and we were together EVERY OTHER weekend all of our growing up years so we were close. Connie moved to Oregon more than 50 years ago and Nick to Ohio about the same time so we don't see them often but we still see each other every few years when they both come back to visit. Here is an article I found about the accident.
https://www.news4jax.com/news/local/2022/03/03/pilot-dies-after-aerobatic-plane-crash-at-st-augustine-airport-family-says/
The accident happened in Florida though Marianne lives in Oregon. Marianne's boyfriend owns a stunt airplane business in St. Augustine and Marianne was flying one of the planes but not doing stunts. She would have survived the crash Connie said but the plane skidded into a brick wall and then the damage was done.
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Oh no!!! I am so sorry to hear this. How old was she? How terrible to lose both your children ((((((((((Connie))))))))))
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I just got awful news. My cousin Connie's daughter Marianne was out flying her plane this morning, it crashed and she is now gone. Connie's son committed suicide and now Connie's kids are both gone. I just talked to her, a very sad call it was. They live in Oregon and the funeral will be there so we won't go to it. They have a lot of friends there so they won't be alone. I can't really believe this has really happened but I know it has.