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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: Linda on March 21, 2022, 09:47:07 am
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I too remember the how you used to have to wear 2 contacts in each eye and I don't know how you even did it !!!!!
My floaters seem to come and go recently mainly in the day time !
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I thought you'd probably remember but it was a long time ago, but we go back a long time ago!!!


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I remember when you were wearing two lenses Linda, you were having so much trouble with them for a while too (((((Linda)))))
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Yes, I know contacts, I've worn soft ones, hard ones and now the in between ones and at one time I wore two pair in each eye, a soft one on the bottom and a hard one on top. I have floaters all the time and I have for YEARS and I mean YEARS. As I said, I don't think about them and they don't bother me. You probably need to go to an eye doctor when you get to Waverley and have a good check up.
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Bugger Linda, you are the expert when it comes to contacts ! I cannot imagine anyone being able to do that ... anytime !!!! But I suppose ' needs must ' and you DO get used to it ! Sorry about the Floaters too !!!!!!!!!!!!! You must have got Mine !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (((((((((((((((((((Linda))))))))))))))))))))))
YES Floaters but funnily enough I do NOT have any tonight !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT I would have been about 62 ish when I first had floaters. The they went away but lately I have them now and again !
That makes sense Darien .. age related changes and funnily enough I have been thinking my eye sight IS changing ... for the worst !!!! I bought some of those Clearwipes today from Chemist Warehouse and they do work OK BUT why should I have to keep clearing my lenses so often?
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I was 46, oh MY, that sounds YOUNG!
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These black spots are usually called floaters and are normally age related. I just found this;
Most eye floaters are caused by age-related changes that occur as the jelly-like substance (vitreous) inside your eyes becomes more liquid. Microscopic fibers within the vitreous tend to clump and can cast tiny shadows on your retina. The shadows you see are called floaters.28 Aug 2020
Most certainly get it checked though (((((Moira)))))
How old were you Linda, when you first started to wear contact lenses?
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Oh yes, you have floaters, I think they are a very common thing to have. I have them too and have had for years and the eye doctor doesn't seem alarmed about them but they can be annoying if you think about them. I try not to think about them but I am now since you mentioned it.

I can put my contacts in and out anywhere, I don't need a mirror or anything. I keep little vials of saline in my purse so I can take out a contact, put a few drops of saline on it and put it back in my eye. I started doing that years ago when Emma was in gymnastics and my eyes would get cloudy when I was at the meets, so I'd take my contacts out and put them back and then could see better. I didn't want to climb down out of the bleachers and go to the restroom so I'd do it right there in my seat. It's crazy what you can do if you need to.
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Gosh yes, not much option in your case then Linda !!!!(((((((((((((((((((Linda)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I cannot imagine putting something in my eye or over my eye ball either !!!! I do recall one time when visiting a Specialist Optician in Perth.... They had a video going in the waiting room ... talking about contacts and how to put them IN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THAT put me off right away !
I was thinking last night how I once went to the specialist Lyons Eye Hospital in Perth because I was seeing black spots floating around .... now and again .. They did eventually go away ... cannot remember why or what happened !!!!!!!!!!! I think I has some specialist treatment !!!!!!!!!!!! Insurance Paid !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Today I find I am seeing the odd flying black spot again every now and again !!
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If you are okay wearing your glasses, I say keep on wearing them. They are far less hassle than contacts.
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If given an incentive like that, wearing contacts is a no brainer!!!! I don't think I can wear contacts as I am short-sighted and long sighted and need bi-focal glasses. I've never asked about it to be honest, I doubt I would wear them anyway even if I could.
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When I was first told by an eye doctor that I had to wear contacts I told him I didn't think I could. He told me that if I didn't I would be blind by the time I was 65 so that gave me what I needed to get on with it and here I am today still wearing contacts. I couldn't imagine putting something on my eyeball and I can see why some people give up and just wear glasses but on the other hand, there are thousands of people who wear them.
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I have had these wipes before Darien they look familiar.. in Perth I think and yes they are good. I have a spray Lens Cleaner from Spec Savers and it does work but you also need a special cloth as some paper tissues smear the lens and make it worse. I will go get some of these wipes tomorrow :) Thanks :)
You have always said your contacts were not comfy Linda I remember and Bonnie says the same from time to time. But she can wear glasses at the end of the day for relief. ((((((((((Linda))))))))))))))) It must be awful not to be able to see comfortably or easily. Ange never did get on with contacts. Lots of people cannot cope with them and I dare say they would annoy me IF I had to use them !!!!
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Mine have always been uncomfortable, the first ones I got in 1985 and right up to the ones I have now. It's because of my eye problem. It's not terrible pain, they are just scratchy and irritating if I think about it too much.
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My glasses get very dirty too, so I just clean mine every night with a wipe I buy from the chemist, it also helps the fogging up when I have to wear a mask.
https://www.chemistwarehouse.com.au/buy/81152/clearwipe-lens-cleaner-50-wipes-exclusive-size?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIntWc1dbu9gIVIpJmAh251Q6REAQYASABEgKCOvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds
Are your lenses always uncomfortable Linda, or is it just these ones for some reason?
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My world is a big blur with no contacts in.
I don't see Emma very much but I will Saturday so I'll get some Justin information.
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SO what can you see without your contacts Linda ? Bonnie says she sees everything in a blur or a smudge !!!! I cannot imagine it as I am having trouble keeping my new specs clean !!!!!!! I don't leave them lying around to get mucky but they get SO smudged. I am sure I have said this before about the last pair I had ...... and the one before that and so on and so forth ! I Must have lovely LONG eyelashes and they mark the lenses ! Over it !
Do ask Emma about the Justin thing :) Grandma to Grandchild :)
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Right, kids do try things and hopefully day in and day out they live more sensible lives.
My contacts are quite uncomfortable, that's the bad part and they are really bugging me today and I don't know why. At least I can see, but it's sure nice when I take them out before I go to bed.
I need to find out more about the "Justin thing", I'll keep you updated if there is any news.
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It doesn't hurt to have a flutter or a drink on occasion, they need to have some relief in their lives and they are both young and the world is before them. I hope you find out about what is going on with Justin, but I agree with Moira, Emma has broadened her outlook while Justin remains stagnate.
I am relieved you can see to write to us, but I too wish you could wear glasses (((((Linda)))))
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Kids nowadays have to learn and often they learn the hard way if they have no parental guidance !~ ((((((((((((( Emma and Emma ))))))))))))))))
Methinks maybe your Emma, Linda has met more people while being at Wartburg... and has a broader outlook than poor Justin but I say that it had to happen sooner or later !!!!! Emma has more going for her in her life than poor Justin.
Luckily Bonnie can use her specs when she has any problems with her contacts so her problem is not as bad as yours ((((((((((((((((((Linda)))))))))))))))))))))
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Normally Emma uses good sense about things and once she sees her money disappearing, I think she will get the picture. I'm sure she KNOWS that gambling isn't a great way to make money but for some reason she seems to want to give it a try. I love it myself so I'm not judging her for sure. Luckily I rarely go so I don't have the addiction that lots of people have.
I don't know what's going on with Emma and Justin, I didn't see Pam or Emma this weekend so I didn't have a chance to ask any questions. I'm sure Emma doesn't want to hurt Justin, he's a nice boy though not the most ambitious person for sure.
I'm glad to have two eyes again. I wish I could wear glasses and not have to mess with contacts but I can't so I'll just keep on with the contacts. They aren't very comfortable but I can see.
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I am sure you won't have to worry about your Emma at the Casino, it's always the forbidden fruit that one wants, until one finds it kind of ordinary after all. I hope Justin gets the message sooner rather than later. Perhaps Emma isn't being direct with him as she doesn't want to hurt him.
My Emma will settle down eventually, she is young and the young learn by themselves what they can and can't do.
I am relieved you have your new lenses and that your eyes are more comfortable now, Linda.
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OH so Emma has finally decided that Justin is a bit ... what did we decide a while ago ??? A bit Slow on the uptake ????? ((((((((((((Emma)))))))))))))) She needs someone with some Spark :)
I suppose Darien's Emma will learn as she gets older if she keeps on skulling alcohol !!!!! (((((((((((Emma))))))))))))))
Good that you can see properly now Linda and here I am moaning about how I have to keep cleaning my new specs. I do take them on and off BUT I don't know how they get so smeared and mucky so fast ! They are driving me nuts !
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I think if my Emma is like everyone else, SHE WILL LOSE and get a taste of reality at the casino. We will take her though or maybe she will go with a friend. She's been trying to break it off with Justin. Pam told me this and she says Justin WON'T GO. So I don't know how that break up is going, I'll ask Pam when I get a chance. Emma hasn't told me anything about this herself so I won't ask her directly unless she says something.
It takes a long time to get my contacts because mine are different from most people's. Pam and Emma can go into their eye place and get a new contact on the spot and mine have to be ordered and made especially for my situation. It's been on order and it came now so I have two eyes again, such a relief!
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I am glad the drinking expression has been sorted out, apparently it's 'normal' for young people to do it. I am certainly not a fan, but I will not say anything. Unfortunately, Emma didn't have a hangover the next morning.
I am sure your Emma will just have a small flutter at the Casino and that will be the end of it. I actually hope she loses as that will encourage her not to do so again 
Are you able to quickly replace your contact lens (((((Linda)))))?
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Bugger I did not go back to check your word !!! SCULLED is Aussie !
Why do Australians say skull?
The use of scull is explained by reference to student drinking rituals that challenge participants to down a bottle or can of beer in one draught, like the long stroke used in sculling a boat. !!!
Of course SCOFFED is English !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Sorry to hear your left contact is torn... I know nothing about contacts really so I hope it is fixed fast so you can see more clearly. ((((((((((((Linda))))))))))))) All we need now is Darien to have a problem with her glasses and we have all been in the same boat recently !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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OHHHHH...........I'm looking back at what Darien wrote and she said Emma SKULLED quite a few but I don't know what that means either.
I've been getting by for the last few days with only ONE EYE. My left contact has a small tear in it and it hurts to wear it and I shouldn't anyway so I missed SKULLED and thought it was SKUFFED. I know Emma drank a lot but what skulled actually means, Darien will have to tell me.
My new contact is on order but not here yet.
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Linda I think it should have read ' Scoffed ' re: Emma and her drinking lots and quickly! That is the word I would use anyway :) To me ' Scuffed ' is when you mess up the polish on the toe of your shoes when you kick something !
Scrape or brush the surface of (a shoe or other object) against something.
"I accidentally scuffed the toe of one shoe on a paving stone"
Nothing wrong with visiting a Casino to see how it works, been there and done that in Monte Carlo Casino in Monaco...also the casino in Dunedin and Perth ONCE ! An Interesting experience :) Lost money !
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I imagine we will go to the casino for Emma's birthday, it would fun. She will soon see how fast your money can slip through your fingers so I'm guessing she won't be going real often. I hope she sees that and won't be one of those people who gets addicted to gambling. I love going, but I'm happy just doing it once in awhile but gambling is an addiction to many people. Gambling and drinking are best practiced ONCE IN AWHILE as we all know. Darien, you said Emma SKUFFED quite a few when you were there. I know what that means, I've never heard that before?? I know she drank a lot, but what is SKUFFED?
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Hopefully Emma was hung over and it will put her off drinking so much in the future ! (((((((((((((((Emma))))))))))))))))))
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18 is the legal age for drinking and gambling here in NSW, not too sure if all states and territories are the same, but I assume so.
Trust me Emma consumed a lot of alcohol and skulled quite a few while I was there too!!!
Your Emma might have beginners luck next year then and win lots of money
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Just maybe your Emma did not drink as much as you thought Darien :) Good job the friends of Emma did stay overnight even if they had to sleep on the floor etc ! So much better than drink driving ! I am sure Kylie would not have allowed that !
True they do not make BIG diamonds (((((((((((Darien))))))))))))))) I am not a pizza fan myself !
As for your Emma Linda, it might be a good idea to go to the Casino for her 21st .. she may be lucky :)
The age for legal gambling here seems to be 20 years I looked it up so I am not sure it is right !!!!!!! But you can do Lotto or bet on a horse if you are 18 BUT IF you go into a brick building to gamble ...... YOU have to be 20 ! Pass !
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It's good that people stayed over, nobody had to drive after drinking so that was great. It's great that Emma was good the next day. I didn't know there were people like that. I thought anyone who drank too much would have a hangover.
I was thinking about Emma and her party today. We drove to Iowa City and back for Larry's chemo treatment so I had lots of time to THINK. What I thought about was the fact that here you have to be 21 to drink and my Emma will be 21 next January and she's not excited to DRINK, she wants to go to the casino on her birthday.
I should say here that in Iowa you have to be 21 to be able to gamble. Can you gamble at 18 in Australia or New Zealand?
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Everyone is taller than me, the only one who used to be shorter was Elsie and I told her she was my side kick

Everyone certainly was drinking and their were a lot of bodies that stayed overnight too, which is much better than driving home. I am sure they all had a great time, but we left after the cake was cut. Kylie had ordered a whole lot of Pizzas for everyone to eat, I actually didn't eat anything as the base gives me terrible indigestion. I wasn't hungry anyway. Apparently Emma didn't have a hangover the next day, she seems to be one of those people who don't get them!!!!
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Oh sure, the athletic shoe was the cake. Thanks Moira, I didn't think of that. I did notice that Darien was a little shorter than most of the other people. The best things come in small packages!
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I thought the photos of the party were great too and I also thought the cake was the Boot ?????? Also Darien looked great but short
as in Tiny !
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I looked at Kylie's FB page and looked at the pictures and watched the videos of Emma's party. That was a big party and I was amazed to see all those kids drinking. It looked like they were having a ball, everyone did for that matter. You look wonderful Darien, you really do!!
I so much enjoyed all of this. What all did they serve for food, I don't think I saw a cake but I'm sure there was one.
Emma is SO PRETTY and what a perfect little figure she has. Was one of the boys her boyfriend? I wondered who everyone was, at least I knew your family and even Liam's girlfriend. Kylie has a beautiful and BIG HOUSE, so nice for entertaining.