Three Friends

I struggle to read here as the print is so small and hurts my eyes but I have managed to read through the Christmas post, I am so sorry to see all the upset you have had Darien with the kids and I hope it can be resolved, you’ll have a nice break away from them, I have recently had a fall out with Mathew, which happens on a regular basis unfortunately and this time it was a big fall out so I told him a few home truths and thankfully he’s accepted it because I was sick of it! His bloody wife Sian usually starts an argument and then leaves Mathew to carry it on and we end up falling out, Sian is a manipulative **** and can’t stand Kate and the fact her and Mat were so close, now Kate hardly hears from Mat and it upsets her, I could go on but maybe that’s for another post, I just wanted to say, try not to let it get to you Darien, I know easiest said than done….families!

(((((((((((((((((((Chris))))))))))))))))))))  I'm so sorry about this and honestly, I don't remember that you and Mat had troubles before, but then my memory is not good.   Being estranged from a child has to be one of the worst things and I know you have been a wonderful mother, just like Darien and I know you don't deserve this at all.   I imagine as long as Sian is around there will always be trouble, what a shame.

No, we will not judge, only you know what is the best thing for your situation.  I'm just so sorry that things are the way they are!
I'm lucky, that in my case, my children have been a blessing.  Not that there were never problems, but for the most part things have been good.  EXCEPT for losing our Tim.  My kids have always respected Larry and I and that means so much.  I can't think of a time when we were on the "outs" with any of them.   I only wish things were like that for you Darien and Chris too. 

I thought you were like me in this Moira, very lucky for sure that we haven't had the hassles with our kids that Darien and Chris have had.
As I said the other day, I don't know anyone who has had problems with their kids like Chris and Darien, where they are actually estranged from them.  Pam works with estates every day, all day and she tells me how many families fight over their inheritance, it almost seems to be the norm for a family to be at odds.   

It's how I remember it Chris, no troubles between you and Mat, I don't remember anything like that so it's quite obvious that it is Sian that has caused the problems and that is a shame.  I'm so glad those gorgeous little girls are like Mat, that's wonderful. 

Glad you had a good night there with family Moira.  How far away does Naia live from Richie and Annie?

Yes methinks Naia is a typical teen and she does often ask to come here to do her uni. work for the  sake of peace !  OR so she says but I think Naia does not have many friends really and she comes here for the attention and the company !
They just live round the corner and up the road so it is easily walkable distance if you cut across the park

What is she studying at Uni?