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« Reply #30 on: January 06, 2020, 08:10:48 pm »
Oh yes you did tell us that Malcolm's mum had MS, I remember. It will be even harder at such a young age. I don't know anyone with MS so I only know what you tell me with Susie suffering and Darien with her sister Maree. Such an awful illness.

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« Reply #31 on: January 07, 2020, 09:35:37 am »
We watched Larry's cousin Bonnie suffer with it and eventually die.  She's been gone now for quite awhile and she was younger than Susie.  Bonnie was the sister of Jane and Susan, the cousins we have our monthly lunch with. 

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« Reply #32 on: January 07, 2020, 08:15:39 pm »
I don't think I knew that MS ran in Larry's family

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« Reply #33 on: January 07, 2020, 09:42:49 pm »
I don't think we did know, good job it was not passed on to your kids Linda !

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« Reply #34 on: January 08, 2020, 10:33:00 am »
I don't think that MS really does run in families.  Susie is the only person in my family and Bonnie is the only person in Larry's family who has or had it.  My cousin Nick's wife Phyllis was diagnosed with it 40 years ago but it never progressed and that's a miracle.  Phyllis isn't a blood relative though on my side.

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« Reply #35 on: January 08, 2020, 10:37:46 am »
I just found this little paragraph about MS. So far neither Matt nor Annie has any signs of it nor do any of Bonnie's children but they COULD.

While multiple sclerosis (MS) is not believed to be a hereditary disease, having a family history of MS (particularly in a parent or sibling) does make a person more likely to develop it. In a family in which one parent has MS, the risk that their children will develop the condition is estimated to be between 2 and 5 percent. Studies have shown that there is a higher prevalence of certain genes in areas where MS seems to cluster, as well as in some families where there is more than one person with MS. It is speculated that MS develops because a person is born with a genetic tendency to react when exposed to some environmental agent that triggers an autoimmune response.

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« Reply #36 on: January 08, 2020, 07:30:38 pm »
That makes sense to me and I think I have read that before. SO it is possible to be passed on through the generations... like a lot of other illnesses.

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« Reply #37 on: January 08, 2020, 08:06:41 pm »
As MS is an auto-immune disease, it usually reappears in families down the line somewhere. We have quite a AID's in my family and it was Maree who ended up with the MS :(

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« Reply #38 on: January 09, 2020, 08:03:35 pm »
I am stumped..... what is :  quite a AID's in my family  ?????

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« Reply #39 on: January 09, 2020, 08:26:27 pm »
AID = Auto-immune Diseases :)

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« Reply #40 on: January 09, 2020, 08:29:23 pm »
Hahahahaha OIC.  I  was trying to think what Aids ( the illness ! ) has to do with Maree and her MS !!!!

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« Reply #41 on: January 09, 2020, 08:36:49 pm »

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« Reply #42 on: January 09, 2020, 09:53:14 pm »
Hahahaha SO I HAD to ask :) :)

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« Reply #43 on: January 10, 2020, 09:41:22 am »
Well Moira, I thought the same thing.............Darien's family has a history of AIDS?  I'm glad you asked. 
I had lunch just now with Mary so we could talk.  She was telling me how she is SO TIRED all the time and I imagine heart failure would cause that and we know it does, but she seemed so down in the dumps today.  They said they would need to see her again in six months at Mayo so they must think she's at least "okay".  She has lost weight and seems so fragile.  Pam mentioned that after seeing her last weekend and I really noticed it today. 

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« Reply #44 on: January 10, 2020, 08:25:01 pm »
Do you think there is something else wrong with Mary? Heart failure can cause exhaustion and a terrible fatigue, but I don't think weight loss is one of the symptoms.