Oh, then her lunch probably comes in a bag and she just puts that bag into her school bag so there is no mess. Our school lunches were like a meal, potatoes, meat, veggie or salad. Sometimes it was pizza or chili, spaghetti, things you wouldn't put in a bag. My kids and Emma just ate what they wanted and threw the rest in the garbage. School lunches do account for a lot of waste.
I didn't make Pam special meals either, she just ate whatever of what we had that she liked and didn't eat the rest. She eats everything now except mushrooms and she says she doesn't like pork, but why, I don't know?